Here's the thing, you're not alone. You're on a path to defining yourself so you have to get crystal clear on what the journey and the end destination looks and more importantly, feels like. You may have heard this before but that doesn't mean your being it. That's the problem with knowledge - it keeps us from becoming wise and wisdom is the daily act of doing it.
My favourite daily ritual is to visualize it. Create your vision board using all shapes and sizes and surround yourself with them. In your pocket, on your car dash board, a book marker with a one line statement. Like most people you may have probably only done a surface job with it. You put a bit of energy to creating it and you hardly look at it. Everyday, you want to see it, feel it and smile with your heart knowing that you're taking action and living it.
Be the one that sees it in every detail. You need to decide on the WHAT - WHO and WHERE.