It's hard to see it at first, however when you open your mind with this question in that moment, everything changes: 'What am I meant to learn from this person?'
Everyone is a teacher. The most negative people in your life remind you of who you wish to surround yourself with. The unreasonable demands from others teaches you to respect yourself and to say no to the thousands of distractions. The emotional triggers from your past reminds you to focus on who you are and the direction you are moving in. The ankle biters that try and hold you down reminds you that you are meant to aim high and fly.