Who are you in this moment? Seriously you need to eventually figure it out and define it or others around you will continue thinking they can keep doing it for you. Are you tired of listening to what others say about you? Imagine elevating yourself to a point where none of that even matters.
What do you exist to be and do for others? Are you filled with confidence for the change that you are being in this world or are you cautiously navigating your way around hoping and wishing for others to come on board with your dream? There are two kinds of people in this world - followers and leaders, who do you choose to be NOW? It makes no difference where you came from or how you got here the important thing is that you have arrived at this moment. Let go of all the obstacles, you know the energy of others and the need for external validation no longer serves you or the dream that you are focused on creating.