No matter what others say it will never have any impact on who you believe you are and can be in this moment. Until you decide to turn off the chatter from others you will never master yourself and your life.
What fills you up with passion and gets you leaping out of bed? How can you be of service to others in this moment? What is the universe and your soul whispering to you? Are you paying attention because you really don't have much more time to ponder these questions so you can decide what you want most, take powerful action and start being it.